I once told a friend of mine who was questioned by one of his followers on instagram about when he would send forth a wedding invitation and in response to that he said "soon and when he finds the right woman".
I wouldn't want to go into the tales of pressure people go into to get married but hey i just had to comment:
"The pressure to get married Is Fast getting intriguing, really! Now, its not Just parent shoving it down your throat, peers now occasionally hint it to You or nag about it. I feel things are different now in a world where evil Is predominant and deception Is the order of the Day. One should purposefully and diligently seek out that one who would compliment the very core of their ideology,dreams, goals and aspiration before plunging in or else You would be leading yourself on your own volition to the slaughter's house to be chopped".
Perfect answer to that question but i am not here to talk about marriage, pressure, right man or woman, i am about to talk about the deceit in everyman that has deeply eaten the core of most conscience.
Hmmm conscience?
Well, i think its extinct in adults even teens. People do things without thinking of the consequences unraveling in the present or later in the future. what we want is now and we don't care who gets hurt in the process of getting what we want.
I have had to cut of relationships so fast like a lightening bolt because trust seem to be broken by lots. If virginity means nothing to men in this era, then trust is bullshit to many. No one wants to take out time to built it but yet people need others to be trustworthy.
I had a business deal with a supposed friend that now turned out to be a sheep in wolf clothing who got me to invest more than she ever did and at the end told lies about certain financial status of the business and to top it all up, i confronted her when i could place the dots together and what did i get??
She began playing God and keeping mute about certain questions asked like she was talking to some fool or child. I couldn't believe how one could change dramatically from the state of love to hate but looking at how bastardy betrayed i was, i couldn't help but feel hate for this individual.
Trust was what i gave but stealthily i got busted. I have learnt not to give trust easily, if its not earned then its never gonna be respected.
Shout out to those who got busted by people that they had trusted before and now they find it hard to trust again. I can't say i don't feel your pain. I have been there several times and i know best to realize that as long as deception is fast creeping out into the crevices of society, trust will always be broken by friends.
We learn everyday! Mistakes are made but lessons invaluably learnt can never be underestimated cus they are the fireflies that lead you through the dark when the sunsets on you.
Choose whom and you hang around with..
You are either broken or mended by the associations you keep or allow into your life.
It is time to re-evaluate your life, associations, time, goals, visions and aspiration.
when things don't go the way you planned out for them to go, take a quick glance at where you have been, whom you have been with, what you have allowed filter into your mindset and cut off the life support that's boosting the negative energy around you.
Your best is yet unseen and the world awaits to celebrate in awe of you.
Don't give up, don't give in, don't deter, don't be coarsed..
Be originally you and say to that void in your life,
"Good night, OLD!"
"Good morning, NEW"..
