I have heard many stereotypical
talks about tribes in Nigeria, which ones are good and which ones are bad.
But today we will be focusing on which ones that are best lovers and i am
looking to have fun reading from you, telling us if your tribe is best in
loving their partners in and out..
I have heard that the Igbo men are the best in showing love to their women and that they can love you unconditionally and even if they marry another they still will always treat you well.
And that when an Igbo man marries his wife, he does everything within
his power to make sure that the woman represents his level of wealth to the
world. He doesn’t mind if he treks to work but he makes sure that his wife doesn’t
suffer mingling with transporters struggling to get into public cabs to get to
work. He will allow her use the only car he owns and then use the public cabs
himself.
The real igbo guy, rather dies than see his wife and children starve. They
rather do rituals than allow the ones they love die. His family is his pride
and for me I think they top my list for best lovers in Nigeria but then again while i was researching on
this particular topic i stumbled on some
funny analysis made out by other bloggers and scrolling through their comments,
i noticed a commenter by the name Chinedu obviously an Igbo guy who said that
Igbo women are nothing to write home about because they never assist their
husbands when it comes to taking care of their homes financially and that they
rather save their money either with their parents, uncles or in their banks
while drying up their husbands and that marriage has now become a thing of luck, sorrow and pity, not of love
anymore...
Now what other stereotypical talks have you heard about lovers from
your own tribe? And what tribe in Nigeria makes the best lovers? Now being the
best lovers doesn’t entail just being good in bed. It encompasses being there
and supportive of your spouse even through thick and thin, rain and sunshine of
the relationship or marriage... so its an open box kind of loving here!
When there isn’t that good time in your relationship, they would still
be there to encourage, motivate and be loyal to you. I have had to ask a couple
of persons and they say the Northern women are number one in being loyal to
their partners through thick and thin.
So lets have your comments coming in now and get interactive.
