Hello Jane,
I won't
be listening to the show tonight cos am not in Abj now, pls don't disclose my
identity. Am 25 years old now, I have been dating this guy for the past 6 years
now, we met in school and he will be graduating next year while I will be
graduating this year ,now my problem is marriage, I want to get married cos
that has been my dream since wen I was 18 but my dad said to wait and graduate
before getting married, now my guy is not ready and I feel dat even in the next
3 years he won't be ready cos next year he will go for service then maybe he
will look for a job and then balance his life before settling down, now I want
to leave him for another cos I want to settle down this year at most next year,
I feel he will be hurt cos he has never done anything wrong in the relationship
that warrant me leaving him. He is caring, loving, moderately God fearing,
humble, he neither drink or smoke and i have never caught him with another
woman, he said I should wait for him to graduate den he will think of what next
to do,he had promised me several times dat he will marry me nd he will never
disappoint me,but I can't wait for the next 2-3 yrs. That will be making the
relationship 9 years, so I can't wait, but I love him very much,please what
should I do,i seriously need help am confused. Though he is not all that
perfect,he has his own fault too.
Anonymous
okay guys,
this is where i would need for y'all to advise on what to do.
