For security reasons I would love to hide my identity. I am a woman of 30years and life has not been easy for me, not because I am from a poor background… far from it, I have had my needs taken care of from conception till now.
From childhood, I have always been different, treated and looked differently by my family because of my gender. At first I never took notice of my body until I turned 13 and I knew there was something strange about my genitals. A girl in the midst of five boys, I thought I was like them until my first menstruation and the budding of my breasts. Looking at my brothers back then, they never had to bleed like the way I did because I have what they have too. I have a penis and underneath it is a vagina. That made me different and strange.
As I became aware of myself, I got more confused because these organs are fully developed and functional. I asked questions, saw doctors and was told that I am an hermaphrodite. Upon knowing who I am, I never dressed in front of anyone until after falling in love with my roommate in high school at sixteen… she was wild and a bisexual who tried to get me to loosen up. It started the day, it totally skipped my mind to lock the door while I was having my bath, she barged into the bathroom only to figure out the one reason why I had been so shy all along.
To cut the long story short, we have had series of sexual escapades till I graduated and I had to come back to Nigeria to serve. Ever since then, I have had to recoil into hiding because people don’t associate with our kinds. I am more a woman than man and have come of age to settle down. I need say that I have a womb and doctor says that I can deliver a child. I don’t think I have hopes of living permanently outside Nigeria because I am to take care of family business as my father will be retiring next month. So I am wondering if there is any man out there that has and can marry me just the way I am? Would it make any man gay?
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