Yesterday afternoon I got a call from a childhood friend who is a twin, back then they were the envy of the streets because they were half caste and beautifully created by God. Everyone wanted to be their friend.
One of the twins
called me and we got chatting, he told me that his twin sister called him from
her hospital room. She’s been in a coma for almost a year now and he
thinks that entering the holiday season and New Year with his sister back at his
side would be a priceless feeling. He talked about how they actually
spent the entire night together, talking and laughing even though she was
utterly weak, but ofcourse surprisingly coherent, it was a moment he would
never forget and take for granted peradventure she recovers because at that
point a thousand and one thing popped up in his mind that they allow take over
their bond.
What caught my
attention for obvious reasons was the fact they had major altercations and
misunderstanding, a month before his twin sister was involved in an accident
and they didn’t speak to each other for an entire month .
And today, honestly,
neither one of them can even remember why they were so damn mad. In his
words, I can still remember vividly that he said that they were just being
stubborn and holding on to the wrong thoughts and that he is so grateful that they were able to let it go
and get another chance to love each other because no one Is ever promised tomorrow
so why hold on to a grudge when you ain't sure you would wake up to make things
right again.
Wow! Immediately
I said to myself “Talk about a wake-up call and a great reminder for all of us
to LET IT GO”.
This year, I have had my ups and downs, been beaten by people I gave
my all to, people I trusted and I almost became inhumane and bitter but each
second that passes by a still small voice keeps telling me, regardless of all
the nuisance I had constituted, I am still standing only by a grace given to me
by a higher force that I didn't even deserve, so why not let go the hurt caused
by humans. That’s what they are humans and when you realize that they can never
be better beyond being humans, you would stop feeling disappointed at the hurt
they have caused you.
, people I trusted
and I almost became inhumane and bitter but each second that passes by a still
small voice keeps telling me, regardless of all the nuisance I had constituted,
I am still standing only by a grace given to me by a higher force that I didn’t
even deserve so why not let go the hurt caused by human. That’s what they are
human and when you realize that they can never be better beyond being human,
you would stop feeling disappointed at the hurt they have caused you.
Now since the New
Year is just around the corner, I think it’s a perfect time right now to start
letting go of the wrong things. Wouldn’t you agree?
Now since the
New Year is just around the corner, I think it’s a perfect time right now to
start letting go of the wrong things. Wouldn’t you agree?
Some, it will
be hard to forgive or let go because of the magnitude of their wrong doing,
yes, give it time but don't set the grudge in there for too long. Come around
forgiveness when deep in your subconsciousness you have dealt with your anger
towards them.
I am the last
person who would kid myself making peace when i am still hurting but when i do
come around you would know that i no longer hold it against you.
So today, I
challenge you to let go your temper, your fears, your hatred, your hurt. Step
aside from them and no one deserves to the pleasure of seeing you unhappy.
Allow me some
music, when I come back I will give you obvious thirty things you should let go
before new year, as a matter of fact, you need to start letting them go now. It
won’t be easy but it will be worth it.
......................................To be continued
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