You get offended at her, and like a 10year old who got his milk spilled, you take to facebook and say childish things because she rejected your offer as though marriage is all a woman cares about. When she thinks you are ridiculous, you can almost reveal the real motives behind those teasers and chasing; you tortured her with all along.
‘’Please, not all women are about the idea of just settling because we are at a time where deceit rules”. I wish alot can understand that statement. Its in my candid opinion that I think Settling has been and still is our greatest undoing.
We are living in a time where women can marry you, not because they love you but because of certain financial security you can provide for them and their children. We are at such a time where men can marry you only just because they want an heir to their inheritance or for their family names to be carried on. And ooh yes, lest I forget to say, men now scout for working class, hardworking independent women or rich kids to get hitched to so that the suffering and hustling can be reduced drastically to the minimal. I like to call them “gigolos”..lol
They only succeed because women have succumbed to the pressure…
Sad and emotionally draining as it gets for the sincere ones out here, truth is, rarely do people marry as individuals who are completely whole by themselves without needing to be married to feel whole. A lot of couples walk down the aisle as two damaged individuals hoping that their spouses can shine some ray of hope into their already sad lives and make everything bright again.
There are lots of broken people out there who seek to find their own happiness from other people and at the end the same people they thought they could find happiness from become damaged by them too because a broken vessel can’t be repaired by mere mortals. That’s why the divorce rates globally is skyrocketing.
I have had my own fair share of stalkers stalking from radio to facebook, mostly at the thought of wanting to have their fantasies hopefully met. Getting pretty much naughty on my late night show can be at my disadvantage sometimes because a lot of men have had this wrong idea of the kind of person they imaginably perceive that I might be until they get to see the voice in full fledged reality, they either appreciate my genuine nature or they scamper away like chickens.
So, if you got rejected simply because you weren't man enough to approach a woman the right old fashion way from the start, thinking you could coarse her into marrying you because age is closing up on you, then I’m sorry don’t get offended, there are many other women who are willing to settle with anything in trousers but not with a woman who knows what she wants and has plans for a more fulfilling life with one who isn’t so crushed up by the jet age syndrome where anything goes.
This is not coming from a place of pride or arrogance but a place of knowing what is right, doing what is socially acceptable and deciphering who and who is thrilled only by the idea of getting in-between the thighs, adding more to his/her body count or simply just loving because you are uniquely you.
Times are hard as well as finding one so true is difficult too.
