Should the federal government make guns available to more Nigerians?

Sunday, August 23, 2015


It’s been popularly said that in Nigeria, when trouble appears, it’s every man for himself. You either run if you don’t have the capacity and strength to face your troubles or fight it all the same but don’t call your neighbor into the mix…yea!
In other words, if you are in trouble, you either face it or dance to the rhythm of the drum or you just die trying the following day, that if you succeed in escaping today.
I thought about it clearly when two weeks ago I was called by a former neighbor of mine in Warri who told me that a certain rich family in the hood was recently robbed by his 25years old son and now he is in prison.

How did it happen?  You might ask! 

It’s a common occurrence in Warri for thieves or armed robbers to operate almost every night in certain areas and that fateful day, luck ran out for this particular family who relocated to naija in the late 90s from overseas. Attempts have been made on that house before now, yielding no result because of some peculiar materials used in building the wall for safeguard. It dries you up upon touch. Now, there is always a sign to warn any trespasser of the impending danger at night but I guess as time went on with proper planning on the part of the thieves and laxity on the part of the household, the thieves gained success.


How???

Is It True That Men Find It Hard To Apologize Than Women?

Sunday, August 9, 2015

Have you ever wondered why the phrase as short and as simple as “I’m sorry” is so difficult for people to utter whether in marriage or in professional relationships? 

Reports have it that its extremely difficult for some people to say I’m sorry and then it takes humility to admit mistakes even though that word can prevent violent temper and unnecessary  difficulty in relationships.

The truth Is that a lot of relationship could have been saved…and a lot of couples could have saved themselves much pain, agonies and tension in their relationship if only they know how to get the three words easily..”im sorry’

I have a few friends whom whenever they go wrong in a misunderstanding, they would never come around to apologize. They simply find another alternative to apologizing to you… they either continue on the next day like nothing happened or they get a gift to divert your attention from the issues. You can never get them to say I’m sorry because they let their ego get in the way and popular research has it that the problem is peculiar with men and that men more  problems saying sorry to their wives even when they are wrong or at fault than women…. Is it true?

Sometimes people feel an apology is in order only when they are 100% at fault, so when two people say bad things to each other, when is it appropriate to say sorry..should it be done that same day or a day or two when you mentally think the dust should have settled on the otherside with the next person?
How do you deal with a partner who finds it a problem to apologize or he/she finds it embarrassing to admit that they are wrong?

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