Sacrifice Can Make Alot Of Difference In Your Relationship

As we approach the lover's day come February 14th, it will be paramount to understand one of the key ingredient to long lasting relationship which is sacrifice.  I have a guest writer by name Mr. Noah Ogini, who would give us from his point of view what he thinks sacrifice entails. Enjoy and lay your comments after all is being said and done. Sacrifice can mean a lot of things to different people at different times and at different spheres. Sometimes, people we least expect to “fall our gullets” often fall into the trap. In my own words, sacrifice is the selfless, relentless and conscious action towards a person(s) well-being and survival. Not necessarily must the person(s) be known or related to the sacrificer. In furtherance, we can say sacrificing is the giving up of something valuable or important for somebody or something else considered to be of more value or importance. In friendship, relationship and marriage, I believe the following make a worthy, lasting, blissful and lovable union: §       Succeeding together/carrying each other along §       Respect §       Never give up on anything about them §       Loyalty §       Prayer §       Initiative §       Opinion acceptance & back-up §       Little ways of showing appreciation §       Communication §       Eating together (very important) §       Unequivocal trust §       Sacrifice & selflessness §       Walking in the other person’s shoes (it may not be your size though, but try) before judging them Sometimes it’s due to the insecurities present in the lives of the male and female folks. The most damage in life is cause/done by those insecurities (we shall talk about dealing with insecurities next week).

¨       Why can’t we sacrifice that money for new “dope” gadget to help someone overcome the obstacle that is choking and suffocating that someone whom may have cause to help your/our unborn generations.

¨       Sacrificing that time for “hanging with the boys or girls” and follow your partner to the salon to braid or retouch (for the guys) or to have a low-cut or trim and carve that awesome looking beard #BeardGang (for the ladies) without being bored or “pinging abi na ponging”.

¨       Sacrificing that your comfort zone to meeting your partner more than half way.

¨       Sacrifice that time for watching telemundo and  join your man when his playing video games or watching football matches with keen interest, so also, sacrifice that football match and read that every woman or watch telemundo with her.

Hint: It takes nothing to sacrifice that time, resources and efforts for that/those persons. Guys usually look forward to seeing you give that fantasy a “try” and live in the moment rather than whining and same applies to the lingerie he gets for you (remember how models tease the audience on the runway).

Sacrificing would open your world to a lot opportunities and knowledge you may never have gotten if you were “tight fisted”. It would also make you understand your friend or/and partner better because you would know their level of appreciation, maturity, spitefulness and reasoning……….

To be continued………………………

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