Have you ever wondered why most men obviously dump
a really cool and nice woman who would do just about anything… go to the moon
and back for him just so her relationship is sustained but yet he isn’t
intrigued or captivated by the intensity of love she brings to the table?
Then again he is head over heels in love with
an ordinary lady who cares for nothing but what makes her tick and most times
prove difficult to deal with…..?
Believe me, I have sat on my balcony pondering on
the irony of love and came to the conclusion that men, naturally and
instinctively designed to hunt; lose the fire of love immediately he sees that
he doesn’t really need to work hard to conquer a woman any longer…
He loses the vibes when she falls completely in
love with him hopelessly..
Becomes too predictable, becomes too readable, and
becomes helplessly too nice…
When a woman puts her needs last
in her relationship and doesn’t think she deserves to be thrilled and treated
like a delicate sweet scented rose that she is, then let her begin to
understand that that’s just when her man would begin to slip through her hands
like chocolate dripping through the fingers on a hot sunny day.
Most men are attracted and caught
in the webs of a strong willed, confident woman because he wants to be rest
assured that she can be in charge of her emotions when things inevitably begins
to fall apart.
He wants to know that this woman right there can
stand on her own two feet and make a decision that can pull the bond
together…
In other words, he is in search of a woman with a
tinge of confidence who is decisive and emotionally independent with a good
head on her shoulders, standing in his stead when he is not there to lead…
He considers confidence, sexy…
And the truth be told, these rare
species, the carefully selected category of women are indeed rare to find
because relationship books, magazines and society has finally boxed them in a
corner, making them believe that women are created to be a weaker vessels…
That women are made solely to please their men day
in- day out,
Have a not too high expectations,
Be overly submissive to their men,
Respect them even when she’s disrespected,
Never challenge his authority even when she’s
right and he is wrong..
How sad it has become that
society has succeeded in breeding a class of emotionally dependent women whose
selfworth or value steadily tilts the scale of confidence from ten to zero,
putting them in a cocoon….
Sealing their innate ability to
be expressive with a tape of lies…
In
romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity
and pride in who she truly is..
A
woman who refuses to be stunted by societal norms and dictates that she was
born into.
A
woman who is up to date with what’s happening around her and not waiting by the
stove with a pot of food on fire for him to keep her abreast of national
matters.
Men
are naturally drawn to a woman who isn’t scared to leave a relationship that
doesn’t feel right…
She
knows she the captain of her ship but then she is stealth..
Making
him believe he is in charge but nevertheless, she knows when to let him off
when he begins to overlook her needs and become selfish in ways..
Let
me let you in on some secrets, ladies.
The
more focused you are on elevating yourself, the more your man will work to be
at the top of your priority list.
Just
because a man is sleeping with you doesn’t mean he is thinking about the
future..
For
him to think about the future, there has to be something he respects within
you.
Like a strong wit and
strong mind.
These are the two missing links that an overly nice lady seem not to have..
The more reason she gets dumped without a cause.
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY,
LOVERS….!
Written by Juicy Jayne
image credit by instagram: @Peniel_enchill
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