Okay guys, here is a little
research i did on the Mystery of the female orgasm. From the existence of the
G-spot to the origin of multiple orgasms and knowing how female sexuality once
mystified scientists, there is a new finding that shows that women without
clitoris can still reach their orgasm....so to those married wives that were circumcised,
here is the thing, there is a chance than you can climax without the stimulation
of the clitoris, you can climax using your BRAIN only... !
Trust me when I say radical experiments
are finally revealing some answers and damn, you know a woman’s body is like a
violin; it takes a terrific musician to play it right. Pressed or caressed the
right way, a woman can be transported to such ecstasy, that for a few seconds,
the rest of the world ceases to exist. But get it wrong and you almost
can bet that pain, frustration, or hate can ensue from her to you. It’s a stark
contrast to a man’s experience; so long as they can get an erection, a few
minutes of “you know” vigorous stimulation …booom…. it generally results in
ejaculation.
So, question is why are orgasms so
intensely pleasurable? Apart from the usual, “oh it was like I just died and
went to heaven” responses. Have you yet found the right word, yet to describe
orgasm??? And the question that we will be treating tonight is: do you
think it possible for a woman to reach their climax without the aid of the
clitoris??
You know, The woman’s body can be
likened to a washing machine. Let me explain this symbol analogy to you with an
experience on my washing machine.. “lol, don’t get it twisted, dirty you!”
On my washing machine, there is a lock. To
activate it, you have got to hold down the start button for a particular length
of time at just the right intensity. If you fondle it too soft, nothing happens
and if you handle it too hard, you would get it so bad because the machine will
be angrily at you but once you’ve mastered the technique, it’s easy; the lights
switch on, things start moving and the cycle ultimately climaxes in a
shuddering twirling crescendo of noise. Finally, you to your joy as the
manipulator, you discover an entangled heap of damp but refreshed clothes
tumbles out at the other end.
*Clapping*
Only then you know that you have done a
good job at laundering. it’s indeed a perplexing mystery.
Why are orgasms so intensely pleasurable? How come
women can experience multiple orgasms? And does the fabled G-spot even truly
exist? And if it does exist then why do most women find it hard to
climax and then why do women without clitoris find it hard to climax too
knowing that there is a g spot responsible
for orgasm?
I
think these are some of the most enduring mysteries of medicine. And you know The
funny thing is that We are able to go to the moon, but we do not understand
enough about our own bodies but then again in recent years we have seen a load
of studies by these real-life Masters of Sex, and I must say that they are
finally getting some answers as to how we come to have that inexplicable
feeling after intense thrusting, fondling and manipulating some sensitive body
parts. But then if you have been circumcised before, have you ever
experienced orgasm as a woman or as a man how was your experience with a woman
who had been circumcised?
Now,
ladies, do you know that the secret to reaching your orgasm is through the
activation of the brain? There are hotspots in the brain… the truth is
that the woman’s brain still receives signals from the genitals after orgasm
long after the male has ejaculated and this allows for multiple orgasms for
women plus it accounts for reason why a woman can still be in need for more
even when some men are exhausted. Trust me when I say this happens as a result
of the hotspots in the brain and one of the hotspots in the brain is the
nucleus accumbens, that’s a brain region that deals in pleasure and reward and
it does that through the release of a neurotransmitter called dopamine.
Now research
has it that if given the choice, rats will choose electrical stimulation of
this brain region over food - to the extent that they would allow themselves to
starve to death because of the intense pleasure that region of the brain brings
and besides sex, that hotspot can also activated by cocaine, amphetamine,
caffeine, nicotine and chocolate. No wonder orgasms make you want to keep on
going back for more. After orgasm, however, some
important differences do emerge, which might begin to explain why men and women
react so differently after climax. Researchers have found some preliminary
evidence that show that specific regions of the male brain becomes unresponsive
to further sensory stimulation of the genitals immediately after orgasm, whereas
women’s brains continue to be activated: this may be why some women experience
multiple orgasms, and men do not…and that’s why men are expected to go beyond
one round in order to give their women the ultimate satisfaction.
Now here is the reason
why men can go through multiple orgasm like women, The penis has just one route
for carrying sensations to the brain, the female genital tract has three or
four. Its that simple.
It wasn’t until
the 16th Century that the clitoris began to be described as a distinct physical
structure, common to all women, with the function of inducing pleasure. Yet in
subsequent centuries, female pleasure took a back seat, and the clitoris was
largely forgotten. It re-emerged in the 20th Century, but was still regarded as
inferior by many. Now, sexologists have come to a conclusion that the
inability to experience vaginal orgasms is associated with psychosexual
immaturity but then the question still
remain is it even possible to have an orgasm in the absence of a clitoris? Worse
still does size matter? That’s a debate that we can never get tired of..
Well here is an
answer to that:
A particular
sexologist by the name Paula wondered if the size, and location of the clitoris
in healthy women might influence the ease with which they orgasm during
penetrative sex. So she and her colleagues recruited ten women who claimed
rarely or never to achieve orgasm during sexual encounters, and twenty women
who said they climax almost every time, and so they used an MRI scanner to take
a detailed look at their clitorises. They found that the smaller the size of
the clitoris and the further it was from the vagina, the harder the women
found it to achieve orgasm. So it wasn’t about the size of the
penis but the size of clitoris and the distance between the vagina and he
clitoris.
As
for women who find it difficult to climax during penetrative sex – or indeed
any sex – Paul’s message was simple: experiment!!!
And
know that there’s nothing wrong with you. Everyone is a little different, so
some women will have a lot of clitoral stimulation during sex, while for others
it’s a little harder -but your partner may have to use their hands or a toy to
help you achieve that goal plus women should know that if they don’t have
orgasms with straight out vaginal penetration, then that that’s normal.”
lots of guys ask why it is hard to make ladies reach orgasm and others wonder why some ladies fake orgasm as well. truth is, whether a lady is circumcised or not foreplay before sex is a MUST for couples. Also, some ladies aren't confident about their bodies and this also affects sensual stimuli and sexual pleasure. like I always say, sex is to be enjoyed and not endured, so every couple need to take out time to fully understand each other so as to satisfy their sexual desires much better. in the words of Will Smith from the movie "hitch", every guy can sweep any lady off her feet, he just needs the right broom. that's all this DJ has to contribute for now, stay safe and do remember to indulge responsibly.*.
ReplyDeleteAwwww, nice one, Dj Taila.. you couldnt have said it any better. the right broom is specific for each individual cus what worked for girlfriend A simply cant guarantee you success with Girlfriend B. you just have to know the right bottoms that work for each individual. slow may not necessarily work for every girl.
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