The Magical Wand Of Seduction 103

Ladies, get in here and let me teach you a thing or two about seduction. Seduction is not about being scantily dressed with loud makeup or wearing the most expensive lingerie and slowly slipping and sliding down the bedroom pole nor dancing erotically.. Its way deeper than that and ultimately done artistically…

Follow the rules of seduction and obtain the power to control the man from behind… LMAO. #MyEvilLaughter

 I can see some of these men reading this with their eyes popping out at the word, “control the man.”

Now back to the ladies in the house, we all know that Power is irresistible, and nothing will bring you more power in the modern world than the ability to seduce. To have such power does not require a total transformation in your character or any kind of physical improvement in your looks because seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to become a master at the game. All that is required is that you look at the world differently, through the eyes of a seducer ( “ME” …LOL Just kidding).

First understand that the origin of the word "seduction" is the Latin for "to lead astray” and what you are expected to do is to distract and lead your victim astray from his safe realm to your world of pain and pleasure. Pain in the sense that, you have made him fall in love with you but your occasional coldness keeps him in check and confused because he doesn't know what he did to provoke this demeanor, making him anxious to get you on your good sides. Pleasure on the otherhand; he is on a different spectral of high when you treat him to so much love and attention.

So, are you ready to take this trip with me?

Let me remind you that it works even in marriage and tends to keep at bay, the normal air of “see finish.”

Truth be told that people are constantly trying to influence us, to tell us what to do, and just as often we tune them out, resisting their attempts at persuasion. There is a moment in our lives, however, when we all act differently—when we are in love. We fall under a kind of spell. Our minds are usually preoccupied with our own concerns; now they become filled with thoughts of the loved one. We grow emotional, lose the ability to think straight, act in foolish ways that we would never do otherwise. If this goes on long enough something inside us gives way: we surrender to the will of the loved one, and to our desire to possess them.

Seducers are people who understand the tremendous power contained in such moments of surrender. They analyze what happens when people are in love, study the psychological components of the process—what spurs the imagination, what casts a spell. By instinct and through practice they master the art of making people fall in love.

  As the first seductresses knew, it is much more effective to create love than lust. A person in love is emotional, pliable, and easily misled.

A person in lust is harder to control and, once satisfied, may easily leave you. So, seducers take their time, create enchantment and the bonds of love, so that when sex ensues it only further enslaves the victim. Understand that creating love and enchantment becomes the model for all seductions—sexual, social, political because a person in love will surrender.

Anyways, centuries ago, power was mostly gained through physical violence and maintained with brute strength. There was little need for subtlety; a king or emperor had to be merciless. Only a select few had power, but no one suffered under this scheme of things more than women. They had no way to compete, no weapon at their disposal that could make a man do what they wanted—politically, socially, or even in the home.

Of course men had one weakness: their insatiable desire for sex. A woman could always toy with this desire, but once she gave in to sex the man was back in control; and if she withheld sex, he could simply look elsewhere or exert force.

Now get it straight… that a man sleeps with you, doesn’t mean that he is thinking about the future. For him to think about the future, you must have something he respects within you… “like a strong will and a stronghold.”

So, what good was a power in sex that was so temporary and frail? Yet women had no choice but to submit to the ruthless conditions, back in the day.

 There were some women though, whose hunger for power was too great, and who, over the years, through much cleverness and creativity, invented a way of turning the dynamic around, creating a more lasting and effective form of power.

These women, among them Bathsheba and Delilah from the Old Testament; Helen of Troy; the Chinese siren Hsi Shi; and the greatest of them all, Cleopatra. They invented “seduction”. They were queens of seduction.

 First they would draw a man in with an alluring appearance, designing their makeup and adornment to fashion the image of a goddess come to life. By showing only glimpses of flesh, they would tease a man's imagination, stimulating the desire not just for sex but for something greater: the chance to possess a fantasy figure. Once they had their victims' interest, these women would lure them away from the masculine world of war and politics and get them to spend time in the feminine world—a world of luxury, spectacle, and pleasure.

They might also lead them astray literally, taking them on a journey, as Cleopatra lured Julius

Caesar on a trip down the Nile.

Men would grow hooked on these refined, sensual pleasures—they would fall in love. But then, invariably, the women would turn cold and indifferent, confusing their victims. Just when the

men wanted more, they found their pleasures withdrawn. They would be forced into pursuit, trying anything to win back the favors they once had tasted and growing weak and emotional in the process.

Men who had physical force and all the social power; men like King David, the Trojan Paris, Julius Caesar, Mark Antony, King Fu Chai would find themselves becoming the slave of a woman.

In the face of violence and brutality these women made seduction a sophisticated art, the ultimate form of power and persuasion. They learned to work on the mind first, stimulating fantasies, keeping a man wanting more, creating patterns of hope and despair and that was the essence of seduction.

Their power was not physical but psychological, not forceful but indirect

and cunning. These first great seductresses were like military generals planning the destruction of an enemy, and indeed early accounts of seduction often compare it to battle, the feminine version of warfare.

 For Cleopatra, it was a means of consolidating an empire.

In seduction, the woman was no longer a passive sex object; she had become an active agent, a figure of power.

However, it seems to me that women nowadays, have lost their seductive touch and given the men the specter to rule in the world of seduction. Then, in the seventeenth century came a great change:

Men grew interested in seduction as a way to overcome a young woman's resistance to sex.

These men began to adopt the methods traditionally employed by women. They learned to dazzle with their appearance, to stimulate the imagination, to play the coquette. They also added a new, masculine element to the game: seductive language because they had discovered a woman's weakness for soft words.

These two forms of seduction—the feminine use of appearances and the masculine use of language would often cross gender lines. For instance Casanova would dazzle a woman with his clothes and Ninon de l'Enclos would charm a man with her words.

You must know that the essence of seduction is constant: never be forceful or direct; instead, use pleasure as bait, playing on people's emotions, stirring desire and confusion, inducing psychological surrender. In seduction as it is practiced today, the methods of Cleopatra still hold.

And that I will let in on, on the next article on the wand of seduction.

                                                                                                    To be continued…
if you miss "how to kiss like a seductress", then here it is!

3 comments