Men Are Dogs, Women Have Fish Brains... Does It Still Hold True?

Men and women, please indulge me a little and come right over to my place because we have alot to share from our different perspectives. I have always thought that women with remarkable virtues, strong core values and integrity are priceless and thus are the dream of every man (whether they be real men or not). Even a drunk wants a level headed wife to hold the fore even if he can't see the next staircase. So why do we have lots of good women lurking around the corner, waiting to be seen and swept off their feet by one bad guy with same principles as her's.
I am going to be objective and stay in the middle so that you won't say i am being biased.

women too have their own skoi-skoi and i am no exception. When they find a guy who is caring, supportive, holy ghost filled and quiet, ready to bring heaven to their doorstep, they take them for granted and rather drool over that hunk with ripped body, who's got all the nicest vibe ever but then he is just a jerk.
I don't know but we find ourselves attracted to those kinds that would date you, make you warm his bed as he pleases, some even unashamedly squat with you, invariably making courtship look like we are "room mating". He would eat your food, make love to you, atleast three times a day on top of the bed you bought with your money ooo... The highest insult sef on top this love matter is when he allows you wash his clothes, boxers inclusive..smh(shaking my head).

After every-every, this fine guy go chop clean mouth, tie you down with sweet mouth but outside dia, he get one chic wey dey give an further maths to solve. He dey try wan crack code but taaaaa, na dead end he dey always jam.
God help your ministry, make you catch am but the devil wey no want make you use brain go tell you say aferall all men cheap. so e beta make you stick with this one, then try change am. More stupidly, we trace the girl and cut am straight warning..."if i hear" but through it all you no fit take brain, ask yourself if you  be learner??"

Often time, the other chic might not be as pretty as the chic that thinks herself the main chic but then she sabi put this other guy for work. Its not like she holds up on sex ohhh but then she knows how to play the coquette. She understands that with a man, you should know better not to put all your cards on the table, worse still let him see all the cards that you bring. With stealth, she is the driver of the bus, making him think he has been the one driving the bus all along. Call it manipulation or whatever but then she is in control of what direction the relationship is steered towards.

Thats the difference between the very nice girlfriend and the b*tchy lady.

Thats the reason, we have pretty girls on the loose hopefully looking for love in a needy way. First, know that love no be do or die affair. If guy dey make yeye, abeg put am for corner jare... Men plenty, no fear!
I can't over emphasize it when i say that its imperative that you love yourself first, have a relationship with yourself, dance to the tune of your own song and others would love to hum alongside but then you have got to make sure that you allow to join in only those who harmonize with your own self image.

What make b*tches stand out way more alluring or captivating than the goody two shoes-all-nicey woman is because the latter, in her time of self discovery, finds out what makes her tick and what her standards are. She grows in the process of finding herself into loving what she's discovered about her person and so she understands what her identity truly is and how she wants to be treated. Afterwards, she finds herself training others on how she wants to be treated by first treating herself right.

But for some reason, we, "independent-if you want it, put a ring on it-kinda ladies" wonder why we have more men who have lowered their standards and seem to settle for the "goody two shoes girls" and few months later they come sneaking into our spaces in the dead of night when their wives are asleep to spew lies of how traumatic the marriage is and how they made the wrong choices at the end (Through the phone oo before you start thinking something else...) and how they would love to have side action!

No doubt, relationship seem to be a battle field, fingers putting at each others with name calling and curses flying like missiles... this is leading me to conclude with these questions for deliberation.

Guys, do you think the reason we have strong intelligent and independent women roaming the club, church, mosque, or wherever in search of a real man thats true and old fashioned in his love, is because women make it harder to have a stable relationship and please tell us what way, women have become pain in the a**
Women,,share your struggles with the kinds of men you have encountered and what opinions you have formed around them as i will be sharing mine too in the comment section.
Lets argue intelligently.

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