Hey guys, here is a mail from a JJE lover and i think he needs our collective advice. Just read through and drop a comment below but i will give my two cents right after.Bae with lots of Juice,
Greetings. I trust you are good?
I am a secret fan of your blog. Well, lemme go straight to the point.
My girlfriend is stiff in bed, she rarely concur to fun play or changing styles when making love. I guess she has really killed my sexual capability. She barely kisses, let alone romance. She just wanna have sex anytime she feels like which can be once in a blue moon. I don't just understand what her problems are.
I have spoken to her severally but all to no avail. I hear that all girls like to be sucked but for the exception of my bae. She doesn't like it at all. She said it's irritating. Even when I try convincing her not to bother seeing, that I like eating pussy, she will in turn tell me that it's putting her off. Imagine that? I wanna suck her till she cums, but she will be the last person to accept that. I've adapted to her way of sex for peace to reign but it has back fired on me.
These days I don't last on bed, I just wanna cum and relax and I am not finding it funny any more. As a Medical practitioner, I have done every necessary medical examination on myself but by God's grace I am fit and sound medically. I guess it's a psychological problem. It is shameful to say it out.
For the records, I am a one man one woman kind of person. With that orientation, I find it very difficult to taste outside of my relationship because I know if it gets sweeter, it will affect my relationship; but what if it gets very bad? And another reason I am finding it difficult to taste out is because I can't do it with any kind of lady, and my kind of woman is very very rare. And those kind can't be easily laid. It's also a problem of its own. Compounded, right? Lol.
Please I just want your advice on how I can leave the shells of this my psychological problem.
Hope to read from you soon.
Anonymous.
Now, I am pretty much excited to have you confide in me and I hope you find the greatest fulfilment in your relationship which is a partner that you are sexually compatible with even as other collective aspects that make for a stronger and healthier relationship is intact.I have been told over and over again by married friends and older people that generally, across all borders between the rich and the poor man, what keeps the male specie, happy and sane are tasty food and good sex. Other good attributes are just but an added advantage to the mix.
A man can have for himself, the most beautiful woman in the world, drool over her naked or clothed form but once the sex is bad, that beauty automatically fades away because one of the most important thrills of having the juicy pie(which ofcourse is the feel of having the tastebuds awakened by the tingling sensations kicked in by every bite of the pie) is not there. He gets disappointed and throws the pie away in search for a better one to satiate his thirst and subdue the hunger pang.
A relationship with a partner that is not sexually compatible is a relationship bound to face a height of frustration and it will fail. When one partner is not sexually fulfilled, he\she won't be totally work fulfilled because sex is the glue that keeps your body and soul together and causes you to smile even when there isn't anything in the office that is amusing. That's why when a couple engages in that sweet morning glory exercise (sex in the early hours of the day), they function better and smarter at work. Sex is that powerful and so its imperative that you have a partner that is your match in every way possible. This is one aspect that researchers have said leads to the high rate in divorce case even before the issue of money comes in.
What is marriage, really?
Ooh, wait!!
I am building a point here!
Marriage is not really about the ceremonial gathering of friends and family to witness the nuptial joining of two lovers but it is the actually joining of two flesh to become one(sex is the actual marriage). And this is why, its advisable that it been done legally but thats by the way... The point is not to make you feel guilty but the point to make you see how integral sex is in a relationship. When you aren't getting the right doses, you begin to psychologically, emotionally and spiritually shut down and this is what turns a man into a beast.
Now, there are particular reasons why some women dont like being licked down below. Its either they are grossed by it or because they feel uncomfortable with the thought of you smelling their private part or simply because they have been psychologically accepted the fact that naija men are grossed by it and they don't truly like it. Some could stem from their religious beliefs and if it based on that, then you can never really get such women to come around.
So, here it is, i am of the belief that what you cant deal with in courtship, will certainly appear in marriage and most definitely magnify at a long run. You should also understand that you cant change a fellow human being so dont even think that a partner would change from what they are or change their belief system and that being said, look for your type and follow the courage of your conviction. Weigh your pros and cons putting into consideration that relationships are not perfect but the conscious efforts of both individuals that make it enviable. Reach out for what would make you happy and dont settle for less than what you think you truly deserve. Life is too short for complicated relationships. In all, make a decision that wouldnt get you looking back in regrets! Either ways, you already know what you need to do before you ever thought of reaching out to me.
I hope, i have helped you even just a little. Wish you the best of luck!
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