Naija men can like to feel themselves ehhnn... They like to think they bring it down in the bedroom but mehnnnn the truth is most Nigerian women are suffering in silence. There are
thousands of men out there who believe they are God’s gift to women when it
comes to the bedroom. Sadly enough, most of these men fall short of women’s
expectations. Women do not find it very easy letting their men know they are
not as good as they are due to the fact that they believe it would leave the
men’s ego bruised. This in turn, we find naija men who continually do the same
wrong things and believe they are getting it right. I have a case of
an ex-boyfriend who at the start of the relationship, he was beating his chest
to the claims that he was a good kisser, only for him to suck just my lower lip
till it got swollen and the licked my face from chin to jaw, like he was trying
to add “jara”
By the way, I didn’t give up on him, seeing
how great a teacher I was, I decided to teach him how to kiss a woman and just
maybe he could alternate the upper lip and the lower lip sometime. Teasing the
lips lightly can play a major part too in the game of romance.
Anyways, enough of me. Lets get down to the
business of the day.
I had the courage
to approached a few ladies in order for them to share the things they find
uncomfortable during sex. And my ohhh my, Gentlemen, you need to take note
because I totally agree with them all, out
of experience.
1. Biting:
“My boyfriend has this habit of always straight out biting my neck, ears and other. He believes he is nibbling on them sexily but most time it makes me uncomfortable and it hurts.” – Anna.
“My boyfriend has this habit of always straight out biting my neck, ears and other. He believes he is nibbling on them sexily but most time it makes me uncomfortable and it hurts.” – Anna.
2. Rough Hands on
the Breasts:
“This is the one thing I hate when it comes to my man of three years. He grabs my breasts way too hard. It is getting so bad that we do not have sex as often as we usually do because I am really starting to hate it.” – Jadesola.
“This is the one thing I hate when it comes to my man of three years. He grabs my breasts way too hard. It is getting so bad that we do not have sex as often as we usually do because I am really starting to hate it.” – Jadesola.
3. Not Enough
Foreplay:
“These days, he does not even kiss me anymore before he proceeds to the main part. He expects me to always be ready and this leads to uncomfortable sex sessions.” – Odun.
“These days, he does not even kiss me anymore before he proceeds to the main part. He expects me to always be ready and this leads to uncomfortable sex sessions.” – Odun.
4. Terrible Oral:
“When I met my boyfriend, before we became intimate, he was always bragging about how great he was when it comes to giving oral sex. He did that so much that I was looking forward to when I finally get the chance to enjoy it. When it was time, he was so terrible that I could not fathom how no one ever told him this. He kept biting, chewing and gnawing at me down there. I never told him how bad he was. I just told him I hated oral sex so we never did it again.” – Lola.
“When I met my boyfriend, before we became intimate, he was always bragging about how great he was when it comes to giving oral sex. He did that so much that I was looking forward to when I finally get the chance to enjoy it. When it was time, he was so terrible that I could not fathom how no one ever told him this. He kept biting, chewing and gnawing at me down there. I never told him how bad he was. I just told him I hated oral sex so we never did it again.” – Lola.
5. “Mistaken”
Entrance:
“One time, I was with this guy that kept trying to penetrate me anally and kept pretending it was an accident. He did this again and again until I had enough and just walked out. It was so presumptious and disrespectful.” – Rachael.
“One time, I was with this guy that kept trying to penetrate me anally and kept pretending it was an accident. He did this again and again until I had enough and just walked out. It was so presumptious and disrespectful.” – Rachael.
6. Being Rude:
“My boyfriend keeps saying rude and degrading thing during sex that I guess was meant to be a turn-on. All it did was frustrate and annoy me. He considers them dirty talking but it usually involved him calling me some insulting names. I am not even sure how to make it stop.” – Tobi.
“My boyfriend keeps saying rude and degrading thing during sex that I guess was meant to be a turn-on. All it did was frustrate and annoy me. He considers them dirty talking but it usually involved him calling me some insulting names. I am not even sure how to make it stop.” – Tobi.
7. Trying to be a
Porn Star:
“My husband loves to watch porn and he loves playing out what he watched when we have sex. Sometimes, this is good, but other times, recreating porn can be the worst thing ever. He wants to try very uncomfortable positions and he spanks or pulls my hair way too hard. He believes that I should love it because the women in his videos love it.” – Jennifer.
“My husband loves to watch porn and he loves playing out what he watched when we have sex. Sometimes, this is good, but other times, recreating porn can be the worst thing ever. He wants to try very uncomfortable positions and he spanks or pulls my hair way too hard. He believes that I should love it because the women in his videos love it.” – Jennifer.
8. Too Quiet:
“He gets so quiet during sex that eventually, it got awkward when the only sound in the bedroom was me, so I held back too. Now sex between us is so quiet and lacks passion.” Sandra
“He gets so quiet during sex that eventually, it got awkward when the only sound in the bedroom was me, so I held back too. Now sex between us is so quiet and lacks passion.” Sandra
9. Prefers His
Way.
“My fiance would only have sex as long as it is on his terms. We only do positions he likes and at the times that he wants. My sexual preferences never comes into consideration. Even when I try to initiate something, he shuts me down.” – Liz.
“My fiance would only have sex as long as it is on his terms. We only do positions he likes and at the times that he wants. My sexual preferences never comes into consideration. Even when I try to initiate something, he shuts me down.” – Liz.
10. Forceful Oral
“When I perform oral sex on him, he tries to forcefully grab my head to get himself deeper in my mouth. Sometimes I start to gag. Now I avoid having oral sex with him at all costs. He does not know the reason why.” – Rosemary.
“When I perform oral sex on him, he tries to forcefully grab my head to get himself deeper in my mouth. Sometimes I start to gag. Now I avoid having oral sex with him at all costs. He does not know the reason why.” – Rosemary.
Ladies, if you think we missed out on some, please share below and guys,
if you disagree. Share too!!
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