I need to address the issue on married men . I married and dated a married man, I know they will come at me and say trash but no karma met me , because I fell in love and had no bad intentions . I have been married to my man for 12 years now and still waxing strong . I will not come here to pretend that all has been rosy or he has not cheated , the temptations has come and we fought through it together .
Married men are human beings like u and I , they are not super natural beings , it’s just a law guided them just like you and I we can decide to break.ladies throw insults on their fellow Girls,you all forget that it take 2 to tango . This married men must have led the young girls on or spoilt her with gifts and affection then use 2 it .
Note that men cheat physically while women cheat emotionally, that is why it’s easier for them to break loose and keep so many girls, and still run their home comfortably , but women can not. Women are only good in keeping secretes and men are good in acting it , note that secrets are heavy burdens that will keep dragging you down , that is why most times the men look younger than us .
Am not here to justify anything , but all am saying is , do what ever works for you , we all have different destinies , at the end of the day karma will visit all of us because we have all sinned differently . So don’t let nobody threaten you with karma ,karma is your conscience and misfortune happens to everybody , it is just guilt that will make us feel sometimes that is our past hunting us , where by , go and ask even the saints, they get greater misfortune in life . So long as you have no bad intentions towards anybody , it will be well with you .
I met my husband when I was just 21, after series of heart breaks from single guys , as young as I was I had a lot of stitches in my heart. When I met him, he showered me with so much love and affection , I forgot he was married . I never for one day dreamt of being his wife , I just enjoyed every moment and excitement at least for once in my life a man treated me so special .
I feel deeply in love with him, so he did with me .
This went on until I decided to ask him a ?? one day.
One day I decided to ask him a question ,
Baby why are you cheating on your wife with me ? Then he replied, I fell in love with you , at first it was just lust, but now it has grown to love .He opened up to me the misunderstanding he has been having with his wife, and she has refused to work it out. We kept on and on until he finally decided to marry me, I refused because I was just 23 as of then, but he pushed and pushed until his wife finally asked him for a divorce .we got married traditionally until the divorce process was over so we married legally . I love her son like he is mine , and good a thing she also remarried too. Life has been so good , because I know within me that I did not cause the divorce , it was meant to be . Now we are all happy .
I still stand my grounds when I say, do what makes you happy, follow your heart , but funny enough our heart always wants what it wants even if our brains are calculative.
Stop judging .we all are victims of one sin or the other , because I have come out to air mine does not make you better than I am. It also very painful how people judge what they do on daily basis but crucify others that speak out , yes they crudity yuh because you expose them and they feel insecure .
Do not use others peoples story to build yours , extract the useful and let what works for you work for you . We have different destinies .
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in very few words, i'd say the lady is VERY CORRECT! pple will always judge wat they don't understand. u have been married 2 him for 12 yrs now, congrats 2 u on that and pls go on enjoying ur marriage irrespective of wat ANYBODY thinks or says!
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ReplyDeletelovely read. Sometimes we miss whats before us because the society has placed a certain "play by the rule" theme for everyone to follow and so we let good prospects pass us by. Lets not let the anyone detect what they think is right for us when we are better judge of our own situation.
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