I watched an interview on comedienne, Chigurl conducted by Kemi Adetiba and it left me in shock as i wasnt aware of the fact that Chi-gurl was once married and went through a lot in her marriage. She admitted that even when she was in need of help, her mother who knew her husband had a child outside of wedlock insisted she goes make her home work.
It is high time society execute a total overhaul on the position it has placed woman in because alot of us have lost our minds and watched our mothers do too.
In another news and to be honest, this is first time i am becoming aware of this guy called Dr. Dokun Olumofin. He is a controversial socialite who has over twenty two thousand instagram followers that rely on him for relationship advice. Trust me, he is an interesting personality to watch and read from but he just posted 20 reasons why he thinks your husband will be snatched by a mistress and going through all, i think to mysellf..
"What the hell is wrong with Nigerian men?"
Why is there so much double standards in relationships and society?"
Like enough already?
When a man cheats, society puts its fingers at the woman. It is assumed that there is something she did wrong or she isn't doing right. This is completely ridiculous to me as no one blames the man for breaking his vows in the midst of worse marital outcomes. Women are expected to hold their home so it doesn't fall apart but who holds the woman so she doesn't loose her mind. And who says the home belongs to the woman? It belongs to both the man and the woman. The man is supposed to be the head. Its only when the head is cut off that the home becomes useless or dead.
My point is, when the home falls apart the man should be held responsible because he failed in his duties in upholding his family.. Period!
He should lead and his wife follows!
Well, below are the 20 reasons he gave!
1. Wearing Head Net, Local Ankara and Local Scarfs at Home.
2. Denial of Sex
3. Bad Cooking Skills
4. Missionary Sex Styles Only
5. Protruding Belly and Inability to Work on the Belly
6. Using the Bathroom without Flushing
7. Zero ASO EBI Style sense
8. Bad Dressing Skills
9. Contact with EX
10. Ostentatious Display of Husbands on Social Media
11. Total Dependence on Partner
12. Fertility Issues ( This is not a woman's fault)
13. Sex Of a Child ( Inability to have a male or Female child, also not a woman's fault)
14. Inability to Speak your native language
15. Telling him your Body Count (Never tell your partner your exact Body count)
16. DEAD SILENCE DURING SEX
17. DIRTY, HOPELESS, BURSTED and UNSEXY UNDER WEAR (Wear Pink, Royal Blue, Red Victoria Secrets Panties)
18. VAGINA ODOUR ( IT MUST BE NEAT AT ALL TIMES)
19. TRY not to repeat Underwear's
20. Nagging wife (All Men Hate women who nag)
Conclusion : IF A MAN WILL CHEAT, HE WILL BUT DONT MAKE IT EASY FOR HIM.
what do you think?
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