In case you are still in the dark about what the issue is about then lemme fill you in even though the main details are sketchy. The lil' research I was able to make shows that Tonto Dikeh's husband had been having his PA as a side chic and cheating on Tonto. The truth came out when Tonto noticed that her husband had gone on a three week trip with this said PA who happens to be Nollywood actress Rosaline Meure to an African country.
Prior to this gist getting to the surface, Tonto had posted this on her instagram page:
“If that guy doesn’t call you for two weeks, he doesn’t like you as much as you like him. If that important meeting keeps on getting rescheduled, it means it is not that important to the other party. Remember your happiness starts with you. Not with your relationship. Not with your friends. Not with your job. But with you. Things outside of you won’t fix problems on the inside. Love yourself properly and people will love you.”
Ever since the emergence of motherhood, Tonto has assumed a disposition quite contrary to what people were originally accustomed to. She has become more mature in her dealings with fans and colleagues as she earlier on this morning sent out a letter of apology to her rival, Mercy Johnson.
”Good morning world. Since I have your undivided attention I better make good use of it and not miss the blessing in this lesson!!! @mercyjohnsonokojie Ever since I had my baby I have been reminded constantly about an ill statement I made about one of your kids a very long time ago.I want to use this media to say I am so sorry,I sincerely apologize from the bottom of my heart.I had no right to say what I did,I totally disgraced myself with that. As a mom I do realize a lot of things I take in because of the love of my son and I know you only took my insult because of that same love.. I am sorry MJ,I am sorry to your lil’ girl or boy.. We don’t have to love each other to realize when we are/went wrong•• I have/had no excuse for my behaviour and I also apologize to the fans I hurt/Let down with my words that day many years ago ..To Err is human but to forgive is divine!!! Am not trying to be the better person,You deserve this apology for your Child for the Love I have for God..I found God and everything in my life changed,Let me tell you about him sometime.. God bless you and yours!!! Happy new year… Take your time with the process of forgiving my ill mannered words to your infant but pls eventually do!! #2017 Amending All my Wrongs #2017 my year of positivity #Long over due apology’
Bottomline is Mercy Johnson forgave and they seem to be in good page already but the crux of the matter is that Tonto Dikeh deleted her husband's name from her social media pages just like Lilian Esoro did to her husband Ubi Franklin. I don't know what solutions that act alone would bring to their predicaments but i love the way women are standing up for themselves in marriages. Enough of accepting the fact that men cheat or its in their innate make up to do so. That's a lie the society is beginning to feed women with and that's why you find most women settle in with that mentality. The man cheats and you forgive because he can't help himself? Really?
It's not a man's world anymore, dammit! Not when the roles have shifted and more women are taken the rein, bring home the beacon. No, it's not!
Its not okay to be cheated on.
The day we accept it as though men can't help themselves when it comes to controlling their penises and where they dig it into, that day...our pain would increase to an unbearable degree.
Women can cheat too in marriages and ooh they do but not all married women do so..
why?
Because when a woman is married, her obligation is to her husband and it takes a lot for a married woman to summon herself to cheating on her husband. Trust me, she must have thought about it over and over again, pushed and ignored by her husbands before she finally allows her emotions go and then she first starts by emotionally cheating on him.
Our men should be taught a lesson that once there is even the slightest hint of infidelity, it will not be taken lying low. That's a total disregard and disrespect to women.
I do not subscribe to divorce but look, women get your life on track, be indispensable in your home, have your money, have a good head on your shoulders and when he acts a fool, show him the door and if he is a bigger fool, he will never realise that he just threw a real woman for a dump that will never measure up to your standards.
Get your acts together and build your own happiness. If you think you will be alot happier when you get married as a single woman...you need to wake up and smell the coffee..Your happiness is found in you and until you are happy by yourself, you will never be when you find that angel you have been waiting on all you life.
I wish Tonto Dikeh and those who aren't having the best of times in their marriages. I hope God heals the institution called marriage because the devil is sitting powerfully on it like never before!
Excellent post Jane
ReplyDeleteThanks Atiga😂😂😂
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