Its been four years out of relationship and its been a lonely-sometimes-kind of road but mixed with hardwork and more hardwork. It’s never been easy getting into the dating world as a newbie in Abuja.
This city is quite a reserved town with the “all into themselves” set of people. people never get to mingle with strange faces outside their cliques. So, its been hard to really mingle with the calibre of people here. Its either the girls are too uptight and fronting or the boys are just busy pretending and trying to catch an uptown girl (rich girl from a rich home) so as to increase their income or build wider network of rich friends. Too many fake asses here in this town.
Let me take you back a little, I am a real ass chic coming from the city of real people who don’t have time to pretend or impress nobody and if you must know, waffi to be precise is the town in Delta State that i am talking about. That’s a place that if you do “yeye”, you go see “yeye”!!!
So, i basically don’t see the reality in pretending to be what i am not and that’s part of the reasons why a beautiful Lady like me is still single at the age of 31, you get ba?
Because all i see is a man trying hard to impress me and at the end of the day, he ends up telling numerous lies from the tip of his tongue. I am really hoping to God that Hadley would be different from the typical Abuja guy oOh!!
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12th July, 2013
Hmmmm… I got up from bed pretty late as usual due to the fact that i am the host of a night time show that terminates at 1am, so i get to sleep late after tidying up my desk and getting home to my little crib and moreso because i bought a new duvie and it feels great to be warm inside it with the AC turned on to the lowest temperature, there isn't any other better feeling than the feeling of laying still, lazily in bed.
Meanwhile, i forgot to tell you that i exchanged numbers with this said caller, Hadley, which was unethical in the field of broadcasting but hey who cares when your heart has finally found someone that you kinda connect with?????
And need i tell you that i got woken by Hadley’s message in the morning?? *all smiles*
I just got back to the real world on seeing his text messge incite the ringtone on my phone at 11:28am in the morning. We texted each other back and forth for more than half the whole day. I felt like a teenager again with smiles and that mischievous glow on my face. It was a mysterious and fun time throughout the whole day such that i was eager to see him that evening.
On the phone, we talked about the basic stuff that acquaintances would get to say and i found out this was a man going somewhere in life and all of a sudden i wanted to be part of that “somewhere”. I wanted to be part of that picture because look at it this way, it is never easy to find a man who loves God and has his life planned out already and he is taking that step one by one, fearlessly as the day passes by. I was impressed all of a sudden and i wanted to see him and get it done with the mystery between us.
It was a friday night and the DJ owned the airwaves as always, playing great niaja vibes to the listening pleasure of club freaks in Abuja and so i stole a chance to see him at 9pm in the vicinity of my Office.
Yaaaay……i fianlly got to see him in person. He came over to the station with his friend Marochi… and oOps!!!!!!
dayuuum, chineke that boy is FINE. Give me the pleasure of describing him to you:
He looked like a man made out of chocolate ice cream whisked into a great stature, broad chest with that six packs that's to die for and tailoring down his strong thighs was a great sight to behold.
His smile, captivating, revealing his perfect white dentition crowned up with two beautiful dimples that occasionally distorted his cheeks to grace his perfect smile all the way. His lips, hmmmm…. reddish like that of a freshly plucked strawberry, ready to be consumed. His height..Ooh well, same as mine, 5ft 8 inches but hey that can slide because we don’t get to have everything we want in a partner, right???
Well, from all of the conversations we have had, he seem to just fit into that perfect picture of the kind of man i would love to hang out with or date after Four lonely years of staying out of relationship.
OK, i have to take a chill pill here and when i come back i will tell you about the journey between Hadley and I.
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