Revenge comes at a price. Instead of helping you move on with your life, it can leave you dwelling on the situation and remaining unhappy, if not for some time, it can be forever.
Yes, i get it, what they did to you was despicable and they deserve to be given their own poison to taste in good measure, so that they can feel the same measure of pain, the agony, the shame that they have made you go through. There is no writing off that feeling. Its so consuming and soul sapping and draining at the end, no doubt.. but like crack or coke, its captivating and that’s all you think of most of the time when that picture or that incidence pops up in your mind.
You get so withdrawn from loved ones, you become hateful of yourself and those around you…. you feel worthless and you hate it that people are living their lives better like you don’t matter. You even are mad at the thought of the world not stopping for a second just because you have been hurt so badly by a certain people and damn… not to think that those who have hurt you are still at large…
Goshhhh, its crazy and all you want to ever accomplish in your life right now is to them a revenge visit. You want it with every fiber of your being, and funny though, the amazing truth is that you have the power to make it happen but experiences have shown that more often than not, when you eventually get the chance to do the revenge, you still do not feel better after all said and done… you even feel worse and this, my friend is self destructive…
So before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves. One for you and one for your culprit who is now a victim cause in no time, you probably end up like him and yes, its a great chance that you don’t give a hoot whether you end up like your offenders but there could be more to your life turning better than what you are currently making it to be… its not worth it, babes or dude!
Now here is a mail that I got from someone called Peter Ibezim
Hello Ikpaju, a friend just sent this to me. Please copy n paste and let him get people’s view. Dear Ikpaju, please help me post this because I will appreciate peoples comment to take my decision. I’ve been going out with this girl for over 1year now and have been faithful to her ever since. I’ve always been suspecting her because calls come during the midnight and she is always protecting her phone.
Recently, I proposed to her despite everything and we are fine. Just 2 weeks after buying a phone for her, the phone purportedly went bad. Days after, because I’m usually not chanced all the time, I took the phone to fix it .
On getting to the area, surprisingly, the phone came up on its own and I decided to just browse through the phone. To my greatest dismay, I just read where she was discussing how she had sex the previous week with her supposed ex. As if that was not enough, she sent her nude pictures to the guy and they were just enjoying the whole thing. My worries are not just that, but that she was resting on my bed when she did that.
Now I’m terribly hurt and I wonder if I shouldn’t hurt her back by sending her pics out since the phone is still with me. Pls I need someone to tell me what to do with this girl as she has been calling, begging for forgiveness and all that while I’m busy languishing in pain. Thanks.
Well, what do you guys think here?
Talking about revenge here… anyways that was a mail coming from peter who is sending it on behalf of a friend… over to you, what do you think???
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